I’ve recently moved out of LA and back to my hometown of bright and sunny (hot) Bakersfield CA. Only two hours north of LA but an entirely different world. Dating in a small town is extremely different from LA. In LA, being single at any age is pretty normal. You’re playing the field…You’re working on yourself…You’re focusing on your career…You’re gay. I was actually doing none of those things but still, there wasn’t much judgement....